Lossing your virginity

When you know you're finally going to have sex, most people skip over all the other stuff to get to the main event. Even people who have been having sex for years sometimes have to finagle during certain positions. Also, like we just mentioned: It takes time and practice to learn how to have great sex. View this photo on Instagram. So if you're picturing something sealing off your vagina like Saran wrap, know that's just not the case. If there are lady parts and penetration involved, your first time may also be somewhat painful and bloody.

Not every vagina bleeds like a stab wound the first time you have sex. Historically, and still in many countries and jurisdictions today, a female's sexual experience is sometimes considered a relevant factor in the prosecution of a perpetrator of rape. On another way this may happen beside the purpose of the mind, either during sleep, or through violence and without the mind's consent, although the flesh derives pleasure from it, or again through weakness of nature, as in the case of those who are subject to a flow of semen. Be ready for something weird to happen. Zip, City, or State We couldn't access your location, please search for a location. People are concerned about what can happen when you lose the virginity. In Sikhism, sexual activity occurs only between married individuals.

Sitemap The site is part of the Clevver Network. Young People, Sexuality and Citizenship. While you can try so many things to make first-time sex less painful, you may always end up dealing with some discomfort. Carpenter, many men and women discussed how they felt virginity could not be taken through rape. That said, it should still be overall pleasurable — not painful.